On January 6, 2009 2:40 pm Steve W said:

Hi Barbara, it is a bit hard to write and be open on this issue but I will be honest. I enjoy receiving limited ass play with a small toy or fingers especially by a woman. I have experienced a woman giving me ass pleasure before and I found this quite arousing. It is different and it can be quite enjoyable at the right time.

I know there may be guys reading this and thinking why would a guy want to try this or they may say it is wrong, but in their own secretive minds I am sure ‘some’ guys would be open to try it. I know that in my Country too many guys try to be too macho so they would ‘openly’ be against trying ass play , but again in their secretive minds some would be interested in trying ass play. It is just a case of removing this stigma that comes with a guy enjoying receiving ass play.

Personally I am one for trying new things because I can get pretty bored easily so I will look for different ways of spicing things up. I am very open minded but this by no means suggests that I am gay.

I find it disappointing that it seems to be a taboo for guys to try ass play. I hope my view on this topic helps.

On January 6, 2009 4:40 pm caldorrea said:

it’s not gay if a hot woman wants to do some ‘surprise playing’ given a proper time… and if it’s Barbara, well, u can do anything u want to me anytime!

On January 6, 2009 5:32 pm steven said:

Hy,
I like it, when a girl lick my ass, that’s stimulant.

On January 6, 2009 6:35 pm yomismo said:

Is not gay at all but my preferences are: Ass licking, yes. Penetration, no.

On January 7, 2009 9:53 am david s said:

hi barbara i do like anal sex when i can get it but my partner dosnot like it. how can i make her like it can you tall me

On January 7, 2009 10:15 pm Roger Storch said:

Barbara,

I would love to have a threesome with you and Celine Noiret dressed up in vintage stockings, and be on the receiving end of a prostate massage from you both. The experience is incredible and I dont feel its gay at all.

Lets make it happen on my next trip to Prague!!

Roger Storch
Los Angeles

On January 17, 2009 3:47 am Bee said:

As regards a woman touching my arse (that’s how we spell and pronounce it in UK)I would not want it because there would be a smell of shit in the air and her finger would have that mess on it. Unglamorous! For the rest of that sex session she would have to keep her hand away from me, away from clothing and everything. If she spoke about it beforehand and said she’d like to insert a finger I would agree to please her and then use equipment to clean myself out. I’ve heard that there is a stimulating spot where she can press against the prostate and I’m curious to know what it feels like. But I’d rather the question didn’t come up as there are other wonderful things to do.

As regards my doing it to her – finger or cock – it seems such a WASTE to go into that dirty hole where she can more easily get an infection than to go into that glorious vagina right next door. But if she wanted to wash out and ask me to do it, of course I would do anything to give her pleasure.

I cannot understand your correspondent who says he gets bored with sex. I’m in heaven!

Bee

On February 23, 2009 1:13 pm Eski said:

Sorry to arrive late to the party, but I thought I should chime in.

It’s my girlfriend who told me that we should get reciprocal. After all we both have an ass! Why would I be the only one f*cking her that way? I was game to try new things, and since then, I love it!

The only anatomical change is the *prostrate*. We have one, the ladies don’t.

The prostate can bring a man to orgasm with a massage of it. (And to the guys, this has nothing to do with the horrible annual exam at the doctor’s office. ).

To have felt a prostate massage and being brought to orgasm, it’s no ordinary orgasm. Also the ejaculation is different, no squirts, just a stream. That too is amazing to see.

As for the rest, the pleasure is similar with the ladies. The feel of finger work at the back door and to feel the door gradually widening is divine. When done slowly, it’s sheer pleasure and no pain.

(And it seems I’ve become a better lover. Now that I have felt what it is, I can duplicate that onto my girlfriends and better gauge my efforts on her)

While it works better with an anal toy inserted instead of just fingers, to answer the question about the difference of being brought up to orgasm while being kept wide open at the back is that the orgasm will be felt differently!

Not necessarily better nor stronger, just different. A radical change from the “ordinary” orgasm, and this is just as great pleasure.

Now, is it gay? I had no idea, nor do I care. Sex is sex. Why denying sexual pleasures?

My thinking is that gay men knew a lot more about their body than we do, straight men. We were just too prude to *fully* know our body, and to discover the sexual pleasures to be had.

My body is capable of sexual pleasures in ways I didn’t suspected before. My only regret is that it is by now, in my 40s that I’m discovering all these pleasures.

This is my 2-cent comment.

Cheers,

-E

On March 2, 2009 1:32 am Jake said:

I stumbled up on this blog by accident and you guys seems to have a well organised Porn Hub in here with the Eromaxx! Congracts Barbara for the great work and this blog.I always wanted to tell you that you got a lovely smile, so keep that chin up!

Now back to the topic, well I think I know the guy you are talking about (K**T L*****D) and I did see you guys together in Platinum Blondes 3 (Dir by Jewel Denyle)and I did see u rimming the guy.Yea I am into this fetish and I guess I do have 3 more clips of your rimming scenes(one with Manuel Ferrera – POV).You might be wondering the same? Well I do have almost all your work.

I love getting rimmed and to rim(only girls), and a strict no to finger.But I guess I love getting my prostate massaged and it varies among guys.

So once again.. I love you Barbara, YOU ROCK!
XOXOXOX!